Wondering where to get a cheap FTM packer? DIY packers can be a great solution when you're on a budget, haven't come out yet, having issues ordering online, or simply if you love crafts!
Introduction to Packing
Packing is a deeply personal and affirming practice for many transgender and gender-nonconforming individuals. At its core, packing means wearing a prosthetic device—called a packer—to create a natural-looking bulge in the crotch area. This simple act can make a huge difference in easing bottom dysphoria and helping you feel more at home in your body.
Whether you choose to create your own packer from socks or invest in a high-quality silicone model, packing is all about finding what feels right for you. There are plenty of options out there, from DIY sock packers to realistic silicone packers and even STP devices that allow for standing urination.
When searching for the right packer, think about what matters most to you: comfort, quality, and discreet packaging are all important factors. Some people prefer the creativity and cost-saving benefits of making their own, while others find peace of mind in the natural look and feel of a professionally made silicone packer.
Remember: Learning how to make a packer is easy and won't take a lot of your time. The best part—it won't cost you a fortune! So get crafty!
How to Make a Packer with Socks
A sock packer is a super cheap and easy solution that anyone can make at home! It's the most popular DIY option for beginners and can be completed in under 30 minutes.
🧵 Materials Needed
Shape the Shaft
Bend your sock in half vertically, then sew downwards from the toe towards the opening, forming a cylinder shape for the shaft. This creates the basic form for your DIY packer.
Turn Inside Out
Tie the loose ends firmly, then pull the sock inside out to hide the seam and shape the shaft.
Fill the Shaft
Stuff the shaft with plush material. Don't overfill—it should look natural when packing.
Form Testicles
Form testicles by filling to the top and sewing a line through the middle. Make a tight knot. Voilà!
✅ Pros
- Super cheap or free
- Easy to make
- Quick (under 30 min)
- Private—no ordering needed
❌ Cons
- Won't look realistic
- May not feel comfortable
- Hard to keep in place
- Won't last long
DIY Packer Made from Fabric
If you're willing to put more effort into the packer-making process, here's a more detailed tutorial for a fabric packer that looks more realistic than a basic sock packer.
🧵 Materials Needed
Draw a half of phallus pattern on paper and cut it out.
Put the pattern on fabric folded in half and cut the shape out.
Sew the edges from bottom towards the shaft. Fold and sew the tip. Turn inside out.
Form two balls from plush filling, put them into pantyhose with knots between.
Put the pantyhose with fillings inside the fabric form and sew it all together.
DIY fabric packer example. See full tutorial →
Homemade STP Device
A homemade STP device is more difficult to make since it must be comfortable and functional. The easiest way is by modifying a medical spoon (available at drugstores for just a few dollars).
🧵 Materials Needed
Mark the exact part at the end of the medical spoon handle that you'll remove.
Drill or slice off the marked tip. Use a lighter to heat and soften the plastic.
Use the lighter to eliminate sharp edges and smooth the opening.
Form the tip from molding material into a rounded cone shape (optional).
💡 Practice First!
If it's your very first STP device, practice at home in the bathtub or shower. If anything drips or leaks, you can wash it off instantly.
⚠️ Important Note
DIY STP devices won't serve as effectively as professional ones. Emisil STPs feel like a natural part of your body—not just an accessory.
DIY Packing Harness
Now that you've made a packer, you'll need a harness to keep it in place throughout the day. You can make one from materials at home!
🧵 Materials Needed
📝 Quick Steps
- Measure yourself around the waist and thighs
- Cut elastic bands according to measurements
- Sew both ends of the elastic band (this is your waistband)
- Sew the part that will support your packer
DIY harness example
DIY Packing Underwear
The easiest and fastest way to make packing underwear is using an old pair of boxers and adding a pouch to secure the packer.
📝 5 Simple Steps
- Find boxers that fit you perfectly
- Measure and cut a piece of fabric according to your packer size
- Position the fabric on the boxers according to your anatomy
- Sew the fabric on the inner side like a pocket
- Show off with your new DIY packing underwear!
After making your packing underwear, wearing tight briefs or boxer briefs can help hold the packer in place securely and create a natural appearance. Choosing the right clothing is important for comfort and achieving a realistic bulge.
Securing the Packer
Keeping your packer secure is key to feeling comfortable and confident throughout the day. There are several methods you can try, depending on your needs and the materials you have on hand.
📍 Safety Pin Method
Use a safety pin to attach your DIY packer to the inside of your underwear. Make sure it's fastened tightly.
🩲 Pouch or Harness
Consider making or buying a pouch designed for packing. These keep your packer in place no matter how active you are.
🧦 Ankle Socks
Ankle socks are great for creating a DIY packer that's easy to secure—just stuff, shape, and tuck into a pouch.
Remember: Everyone's body is different, so don't be afraid to experiment with different methods and materials. Adjust your packer as needed throughout the day to maintain comfort and a natural appearance.
Tips for Wearing Your Packer
Wearing a packer can be a transformative experience for many FTM individuals, helping to ease bottom dysphoria and boost confidence in your body. If you've made your own packer from socks or fabric, a few simple adjustments can make a big difference.
🌟 Essential Wearing Tips
- Choose the right underwear—boxers or briefs with a snug fit are great for holding your packer in place
- Use a safety pin to attach your DIY packer to the inside of your underwear or a pouch
- Try using ankle socks to create a realistic bulge and shape
- Experiment with different materials like pantyhose or plush filling to adjust the size and feel
- Always wear it inside your underwear to keep it clean and reduce friction against your skin
- Practice at home first before going out in public to build confidence
- Gradually increase wear time to get used to it comfortably
For a more natural look, watch how cisgender men stand, sit, and walk to better understand how to position your packer for a realistic appearance. It is normal for your packer to move around in your underwear—you can adjust it as needed for comfort.
💡 Pro Tip
When making adjustments, you don't need to explain what you're doing to anyone—your comfort comes first. Connect with others in online forums or communities for advice, support, and new ideas.
Common Challenges and Solutions
Packing isn't always a perfect process, and it's normal to run into a few bumps along the way. Some common challenges include discomfort, irritation, or trouble finding a packer that fits your body just right.
🔄 Try Different Materials
Some prefer fabric or plush, others like silicone. Experiment until you find what feels best for your body.
🌡️ Reduce Heat Buildup
If you notice irritation, switch to breathable materials like cotton or mesh, especially in warm climates.
📐 Adjust Shape & Size
Keep experimenting with different shapes, sizes, and packing methods until you find your perfect fit.
Troubleshooting Common Issues
Even with the best preparation, you might run into some common packing problems—like your packer shifting, feeling uncomfortable, or not looking quite right under your clothing.
🔧 Quick Fixes
- Packer moves around too much? Try using a harness, pouch, or tie to secure it to your underwear
- Experiencing discomfort? Consider switching up the materials or the style of your packer
- Doesn't look natural? Adjust the position and shape until it looks realistic from the side
- Need more ideas? Watch online tutorials or connect with the community for helpful advice
Caring for Your Packer
Taking good care of your packer will help it last longer and stay comfortable against your skin.
✅ For Silicone Packers
- Wash regularly with mild soap and warm water
- Avoid harsh chemicals or abrasive materials
- Let air dry completely before storing
- Follow manufacturer's care instructions
✅ For DIY Sock/Fabric Packers
- Toss in the wash with regular laundry
- Place in a mesh bag or pillowcase for protection
- Make sure it's fully dry before wearing again
- Replace when worn out or damaged
When you're not using your packer, store it in a cool, dry place—like a drawer, pouch, or even a ventilated window box—to keep it clean and protected.
⚠️ If Making Silicone Packer
If you are making your own silicone packer, ensure the silicone is allowed to cure completely, as a complete cure is essential for safety and effectiveness. Also, make sure that any materials in contact with your skin are body-safe and non-irritating.
Are DIY Packers Worth the Effort?
Yes, DIY packers are a great option if you don't have other choices. They're inexpensive—sometimes even free! However, there are some important considerations.
🎯 Types of Packers Available
Soft Packers
Look and feel like a flaccid penis, providing a realistic bulge for everyday comfort.
Hard Packers
Also called "pack-and-plays," designed for penetrative sex and resemble an erect penis.
3-in-1 Packers
Allow for soft packing, standing to pee, and can be made erect with a special rod.
STP Devices
Allow users to urinate while standing, which can help alleviate bottom dysphoria.
✅ DIY Benefits
- Inexpensive or free
- Can make at home
- Good for beginners
- Private (no ordering)
- Great for experimenting
❌ DIY Limitations
- Doesn't look realistic
- Won't last long
- May tear unexpectedly
- Not for intimacy
- Less secure fit
What if your packer tears right before going out? Or during an important event? What about being intimate with someone, feeling assured and confident? Packers come in various sizes and skin tones to match your preferences.
Remember: Packing is a personal journey. What feels right for one person may not work for another, so give yourself permission to experiment and make changes as you go. Above all, wear your packer with confidence. Alternative: Packing Underwear!
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