What is a Packer? The Ultimate FTM Guide
Everything you need to know about FTM packers — from understanding what they are to choosing the right one for you. Whether you're curious about packing or ready to buy your first prosthetic, this guide has you covered.
What is a Packer?
A packer is a prosthetic device worn by trans men and non-binary individuals to create the appearance of a penis bulge in their underwear. Packers help align physical presentation with gender identity and can significantly reduce gender dysphoria.
Packers come in many forms — from simple DIY solutions (like rolled socks) to ultra-realistic medical-grade silicone prosthetics that look and feel incredibly lifelike. Modern packers can be used for daily wear, urinating while standing (STP), and even intimate activities (Pack & Play).
💡 Who Uses Packers?
- Trans men (FTM) — Most common users seeking to align their silhouette with their identity
- Non-binary individuals — Those who want a more masculine presentation
- Performers — Drag kings and theatrical performers
- Anyone — Who feels more comfortable with a masculine bulge
Whether you're new to packing or looking to upgrade from a basic packer to something more realistic, there's an option for everyone. The key is finding what makes you feel most comfortable and affirmed.
How Do FTM Packers Work?
FTM packers work by creating the appearance of male genitalia through producing a natural-looking bulge in your underwear or pants. They're designed to be worn against your body in a position that mimics natural anatomy.
Visual Effect
Creates a natural bulge visible through clothing, matching typical male anatomy.
Physical Sensation
The weight and presence provides a sense of completeness many find affirming.
Secure Placement
Held in place by harnesses, packing underwear, or skin-safe adhesives.
Functional Options
STP models allow urination; Pack & Play models enable intimate activities.
The packer sits in your underwear at the front of your body, positioned where a penis would naturally be. Depending on the type and how it's secured, it can be worn for daily activities, workouts, swimming, and even sleeping.
Why Would Someone Want to Pack?
Packing is deeply personal, and people choose to pack for many different reasons. Here are the most common motivations:
Relieving Gender Dysphoria
For many trans men, the absence of male genitalia causes significant distress. Packing helps align your physical silhouette with your gender identity, providing relief from dysphoria and a greater sense of wholeness.
Boosting Confidence
When your outward appearance matches your internal identity, confidence naturally follows. Many find they feel more comfortable in social and professional settings, leading to improved quality of life.
Physical Comfort & Alignment
The physical sensation of having a packer can make your body feel more "complete." Many report improved day-to-day comfort and a greater sense of being at home in their body.
Enhancing Intimacy
Pack & Play prosthetics can add authenticity to intimate moments. They allow for penetrative sex and can significantly enhance sexual experiences and connection with partners.
Swimming & Sports
Water-friendly packers and specialized packing swimwear help maintain a masculine silhouette at the pool or beach — situations that can otherwise trigger significant dysphoria.
Restroom Confidence
STP packers allow urination while standing, making public restrooms less stressful and helping avoid potentially unsafe situations in gendered bathrooms.
Remember: Packing is more than presentation — it's affirmation, self-connection, and taking ownership of your body and identity. There's no wrong reason to pack if it makes you feel more like yourself. 🏳️⚧️
Types of FTM Packers
There are three main types of packers, each designed for different needs and situations. Understanding the differences will help you choose the right one for your lifestyle.
Soft Packers
Simple, comfortable, everyday packing
✅ Ideal For:
- All-day comfortable wear
- Natural, subtle bulge
- Beginners starting out
- Sleeping with a packer
⚠️ Limitations:
- Not for urination
- Not for sexual activity
STP Packers
Stand-to-pee functionality + daily wear
✅ Ideal For:
- Urinating while standing
- Public restroom confidence
- Packing + functionality
- Some models allow play
⚠️ Considerations:
- Requires practice
- Clean after each use
Pack & Play
Packing + penetrative intimacy
✅ Ideal For:
- Packing during the day
- Penetrative sex
- Ultra-realistic appearance
- Maximum versatility
⚠️ Considerations:
- Firmer — less comfy for all-day
- Higher investment
Emisil Pack & Play models offer ultra-realistic appearance and multifunctional use
🎯 Emisil's Product Lines
- Erect Series (ER01-ER12): Pack & Play models in various sizes, with options for straight or angled shaft, with/without hair, and optional rod for firmness
- STP Series: Leak-resistant stand-to-pee packers, some compatible with erection rods for play
- Soft Packers: Comfortable daily wear options with realistic appearance
Packer Comparison Chart
Here's a quick comparison to help you decide which type is right for you:
| Feature | Soft Packer | STP Packer | Pack & Play |
|---|---|---|---|
| Daily Packing | ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ | ⭐⭐⭐⭐ | ⭐⭐⭐ |
| Comfort (All-Day) | ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ | ⭐⭐⭐⭐ | ⭐⭐⭐ |
| Stand-to-Pee | ❌ | ✅ | Some models |
| Penetrative Sex | ❌ | Some models | ✅ |
| Realism | ⭐⭐⭐ | ⭐⭐⭐⭐ | ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ |
| Price Range | $ | $$ | $$$ |
| Best For | Beginners, daily wear | Restroom confidence | Intimacy + versatility |
How to Choose the Right Packer
Choosing your first (or next) packer involves considering several factors. Here's what to think about:
Functionality
Do you need packing only? STP capability? Sexual function? Match the packer to your actual needs.
Size & Weight
Smaller = discreet & lighter. Larger = more noticeable bulge. Consider your body frame and preferences.
Material
Silicone (most realistic, durable), elastomer (softer, affordable), or fabric (budget-friendly).
Skin Tone
Match your skin color for the most natural look. Emisil offers 12+ skin tone options.
Budget
Basic packers: $20-50. Mid-range STP: $100-300. Premium prosthetics: $300-800+.
Lifestyle
Active lifestyle needs secure attachment. Swimming needs water-friendly materials.
🤔 First Packer Recommendation
If you're brand new to packing, we recommend starting with a smaller soft packer (3-4"). It's affordable, comfortable for learning, and helps you understand what you like before investing in more expensive options. Once you know your preferences, you can upgrade to an STP or Pack & Play model.
What Size Packer Should I Buy?
Packer size is personal preference, but here are general guidelines to help you choose:
Subtle & Discreet
Perfect for beginners. Creates a subtle, natural bulge that's barely noticeable. Ideal for tighter clothing or those who prefer minimal visibility.
Natural & Balanced
Most popular choice. Noticeable yet comfortable for daily wear. Works well with most clothing types and body frames.
Prominent & Bold
Creates a prominent bulge. Best for those who want maximum visibility or have a larger body frame. May be less comfortable for extended wear.
⚠️ Size Considerations
- Body frame: Larger frames can accommodate larger packers more naturally
- Clothing style: Tight jeans show more bulge; loose pants conceal more
- Activity level: Smaller packers shift less during physical activity
- Comfort: Larger = heavier = potentially less comfortable for all-day wear
How to Wear a Packer
There are several methods to secure your packer in place. The right method depends on your activity level, packer type, and personal preference.
Packing Underwear
Underwear with built-in pouches or pockets designed to hold packers securely. Most convenient for daily use.
Harness
Adjustable straps that secure the packer to your body. Best for heavier Pack & Play models and active use.
Adhesive
Skin-safe medical adhesive attaches the packer directly to your body. Most natural feel and movement.
Layering
Tight briefs or boxer briefs over regular underwear provide extra support and keep packer in place.
✅ Packer Wearing Checklist
For detailed positioning tips and troubleshooting, check out our complete guide: How to Wear a Packer: Positioning, Comfort & Top Tips
Packing Hygiene & Care
Proper hygiene is essential for your health and the longevity of your packer. Different materials require different care:
🧸 Soft (Fabric/Foam)
- Wash or replace daily
- Machine washable (gentle cycle)
- Air dry completely
- Replace when worn
🔵 Elastomer
- Warm water + mild soap
- Dust with cornstarch after drying
- Don't boil (may damage)
- Store in breathable bag
💎 Silicone
- Wash regularly with mild soap
- Can boil occasionally to sanitize
- Powder with cornstarch
- Store dry and protected
⚡ Quick Hygiene Tips
- STPs: Clean immediately after urination to prevent UTIs
- Pack & Play: Clean before AND after intimate use
- Storage: Always store completely dry to prevent mold
- Avoid: Perfumed soaps, oils, alcohol-based cleaners
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I choose the right type of packer?
Match the packer to your needs: daily wear only (soft packer), urination while standing (STP), or packing + sex (Pack & Play). Consider your budget, comfort preferences, and how often you'll wear it.
How do I wear a packer securely?
Use packing underwear (has a built-in pouch), a harness (adjustable straps), or adhesives (attaches directly to skin). Many people layer snug briefs over for extra security. Experiment to find what works best for your body and activity level.
Can I swim while wearing a packer?
Yes! Choose water-friendly silicone models and packing swimwear designed to hold packers securely. Many trans men find packing while swimming significantly reduces dysphoria in these vulnerable situations.
Can I sleep while wearing a packer?
Yes, many people sleep comfortably with soft packers. Use comfortable, supportive underwear to keep it in place. Harder Pack & Play models are less comfortable for sleeping.
Will people notice I'm wearing a packer?
A properly sized and positioned packer creates a natural-looking bulge that's no more noticeable than anyone else's anatomy. Most people don't pay attention to others' crotch areas. Choose a size appropriate for your body frame.
How long does a quality packer last?
With proper care, quality silicone packers can last several years. Cheaper materials may need replacement more frequently. Always follow care instructions to maximize lifespan.
Is packing safe?
Yes, packing is completely safe when using body-safe materials and maintaining proper hygiene. Clean your packer regularly, use skin-safe adhesives if applicable, and give your skin breaks if you notice any irritation.
Remember: Packing is a personal journey. There's no "right" way to pack — only what's right for YOU. Whether you choose a simple soft packer or an ultra-realistic prosthetic, the goal is feeling more comfortable and affirmed in your body. Take your time exploring options, and wear your choice with pride! 🏳️⚧️
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