Wondering where to get a cheap FTM packer? DIY packers can be a great solution when you're on a budget, haven't come out yet, having issues ordering online, or simply if you love crafts!
Introduction to Packing
Packing is a deeply personal and affirming practice for many transgender and gender-nonconforming individuals. At its core, packing means wearing a prosthetic device — called a packer — to create a natural-looking bulge in the crotch area. This simple act can make a huge difference in easing bottom dysphoria and helping you feel more at home in your body.
Whether you choose to create your own packer from socks or invest in a high-quality silicone packer, packing is all about finding what feels right for you. There are plenty of options out there, from DIY sock packers to realistic silicone packers and even STP devices that allow for standing urination.
When searching for the right packer, think about what matters most to you: comfort, quality, and discreet packaging are all important factors. Some people prefer the creativity and cost-saving benefits of making their own, while others find peace of mind in the natural look and feel of a professionally made silicone packer.
Remember: Learning how to make a packer is easy and won't take a lot of your time. The best part — it won't cost you a fortune! So get crafty!
How to Make a Packer with Socks
A sock packer is a super cheap and easy solution that anyone can make at home! It's the most popular DIY option for beginners and can be completed in under 30 minutes.
🧵 Materials Needed
Shape the Shaft
Bend your sock in half vertically, then sew downwards from the toe towards the opening, forming a cylinder shape for the shaft. This creates the basic form for your DIY packer.
Turn Inside Out
Tie the loose ends firmly, then pull the sock inside out to hide the seam and shape the shaft.
Fill the Shaft
Stuff the shaft with plush material. Don't overfill — it should look natural when packing.
Form Testicles
Form testicles by filling to the top and sewing a line through the middle. Make a tight knot. Voilà!
✅ Pros
- Super cheap or free
- Easy to make
- Quick (under 30 min)
- Private — no ordering needed
❌ Cons
- Won't look realistic
- May not feel comfortable
- Hard to keep in place
- Won't last long
DIY Packer Made from Fabric
If you're willing to put more effort into the packer-making process, here's a more detailed tutorial for a fabric packer that looks more realistic than a basic sock packer.
🧵 Materials Needed
Draw Your Pattern
Draw a half of phallus pattern on paper and cut it out. This template ensures consistent shape and proportions.
Cut the Fabric
Put the pattern on fabric folded in half and cut the shape out. The fold ensures both sides are symmetrical.
Sew and Shape
Sew the edges from bottom towards the shaft. Fold and sew the tip to create a rounded end. Turn inside out to hide stitches.
Form the Testicles
Form two balls from plush filling, put them into pantyhose with knots between each ball for separation.
Assemble
Put the pantyhose with fillings inside the fabric form and sew it all together. Adjust the shape until it looks natural.
DIY fabric packer example. See full tutorial →
Homemade STP Device
A homemade STP device is more difficult to make since it must be comfortable and functional. The easiest way is by modifying a medical spoon (available at drugstores for just a few dollars).
🧵 Materials Needed
Mark the Cut Point
Mark the exact part at the end of the medical spoon handle that you'll remove.
Cut and Soften
Drill or slice off the marked tip. Use a lighter to heat and soften the plastic for shaping.
Smooth the Edges
Use the lighter to eliminate sharp edges and smooth the opening so it's safe and comfortable.
Shape the Tip (Optional)
Form the tip from molding material into a rounded cone shape for a more natural appearance.
💡 Practice First!
If it's your very first STP device, practice at home in the bathtub or shower. If anything drips or leaks, you can wash it off instantly.
⚠️ Important Note
DIY STP devices won't function as effectively as professional ones. Emisil STPs are designed to feel like a natural part of your body — not just an accessory.
DIY Packing Harness
Now that you've made a packer, you'll need a harness to keep it in place throughout the day. You can make one from materials at home!
🧵 Materials Needed
📝 Quick Steps
- Measure yourself around the waist and thighs
- Cut elastic bands according to your measurements
- Sew both ends of the elastic band to form your waistband
- Sew the support section that will hold your packer in place
DIY harness example — simple elastic construction
DIY Packing Underwear
Another option for securing your packer is modifying an existing pair of boxers by sewing in a fabric pouch. This is one of the easiest and fastest methods — just add a pocket to the inside of your underwear that holds your packer snugly in place.
Full Step-by-Step DIY Underwear Tutorial
We've written a dedicated guide covering fabric selection, pouch positioning, sewing techniques, and common mistakes to avoid. Read the complete DIY packing underwear guide →
After making your packing underwear, wearing tight briefs or boxer briefs over them can help hold the packer even more securely and create a natural appearance under clothing.
Securing the Packer
Keeping your packer secure is key to feeling comfortable and confident throughout the day. There are several methods you can try, depending on your needs and the materials you have on hand.
📍 Safety Pin Method
Use a safety pin to attach your DIY packer to the inside of your underwear. Make sure it's fastened tightly and won't poke through.
🩲 Pouch or Harness
A sewn-in pouch or elastic harness keeps your packer in place no matter how active you are during the day.
🧦 Ankle Socks
Ankle socks are great for creating a DIY packer that's easy to secure — just stuff, shape, and tuck into a pouch.
Remember: Everyone's body is different, so don't be afraid to experiment with different methods and materials. Adjust your packer as needed throughout the day to maintain comfort and a natural appearance.
Tips for Wearing Your Packer
Wearing a packer can be a transformative experience, helping to ease bottom dysphoria and boost confidence. If you've made your own packer from socks or fabric, a few simple adjustments can make a big difference in how natural it looks and feels.
🌟 Essential Wearing Tips
- Choose the right underwear — boxers or briefs with a snug fit hold your packer best. Or try making your own packing underwear
- Use a safety pin to attach your DIY packer to the inside of your underwear or a pouch
- Try ankle socks to create a realistic bulge and shape
- Experiment with materials like pantyhose or plush filling to adjust size and feel
- Always wear it inside your underwear to keep it clean and reduce friction
- Practice at home first before going out in public to build confidence
- Gradually increase wear time to get used to it comfortably
For a more natural look, observe how cisgender men stand, sit, and walk to better understand how to position your packer for a realistic appearance. It's normal for your packer to shift slightly — you can adjust as needed for comfort.
💡 Pro Tip
When making adjustments, you don't need to explain what you're doing to anyone — your comfort comes first. Connect with others in online forums or communities for advice, support, and new ideas.
Common Challenges and Solutions
Packing isn't always a perfect process, and it's normal to run into a few bumps along the way. Some common challenges include discomfort, irritation, or trouble finding a packer that fits your body just right.
🔄 Try Different Materials
Some prefer fabric or plush, others like silicone. Experiment until you find what feels best.
🌡️ Reduce Heat Buildup
Switch to breathable materials like cotton or mesh, especially in warm climates.
📐 Adjust Shape & Size
Keep experimenting with different shapes and packing methods until you find your perfect fit.
Troubleshooting Common Issues
Even with the best preparation, you might run into some common packing problems — like your packer shifting, feeling uncomfortable, or not looking quite right under clothing.
🔧 Quick Fixes
- Packer moves around too much? Try using a harness, pouch, or tie to secure it to your underwear
- Experiencing discomfort? Switch up the materials or style of your packer
- Doesn't look natural? Adjust the position and shape until it looks realistic from the side
- Need more ideas? Watch online tutorials or connect with the community for helpful advice
Caring for Your Packer
Taking good care of your packer will help it last longer and stay comfortable against your skin. Care methods differ depending on the material.
✅ Silicone Packers
- Wash regularly with mild soap and warm water
- Avoid harsh chemicals or abrasive materials
- Let air dry completely before storing
- Follow manufacturer's care instructions
✅ DIY Sock/Fabric Packers
- Toss in the wash with regular laundry
- Place in a mesh bag or pillowcase for protection
- Make sure it's fully dry before wearing again
- Replace when worn out or damaged
When you're not using your packer, store it in a cool, dry place — like a drawer, pouch, or ventilated container — to keep it clean and protected.
⚠️ If Making a Silicone Packer
Ensure the silicone cures completely before use, as a complete cure is essential for safety and effectiveness. Make sure all materials in contact with your skin are body-safe and non-irritating.
Are DIY Packers Worth the Effort?
Yes, DIY packers are a great option if you don't have other choices. They're inexpensive — sometimes even free! However, there are some important considerations to keep in mind.
🎯 Types of Packers Available
Soft Packers
Look and feel like a flaccid penis, providing a realistic bulge for everyday comfort.
Hard Packers
Also called "pack-and-plays," designed for penetrative sex and resemble an erect penis.
3-in-1 Packers
Allow for soft packing, standing to pee, and can be made erect with a special rod.
STP Devices
Allow users to urinate while standing, which can help alleviate bottom dysphoria.
✅ DIY Benefits
- Inexpensive or free
- Can make at home privately
- Good for beginners exploring packing
- No ordering or shipping wait
- Great for experimenting with what works
❌ DIY Limitations
- Doesn't look realistic
- Won't last long
- May tear unexpectedly
- Not suitable for intimacy
- Less secure fit than professional options
What if your packer tears right before going out? Or during an important event? For daily reliability and confidence in intimate situations, professional silicone packers offer a significant upgrade. They come in various sizes and skin tones to match your preferences.
Remember: Packing is a personal journey. What feels right for one person may not work for another, so give yourself permission to experiment and make changes as you go. Above all, wear your packer with confidence!
Frequently Asked Questions
What's the easiest DIY packer to make?
A sock packer is the easiest and quickest option — it takes under 30 minutes, costs nothing, and requires only socks, plush filling, a needle, and thread. It's perfect for beginners who want to try packing without any investment.
How do I keep my DIY packer from moving around?
Use a safety pin to attach it to the inside of snug underwear, make a DIY harness from elastic bands, or sew a pouch directly into your boxer briefs. For a full tutorial on the underwear method, see our DIY packing underwear guide.
Is it safe to make a DIY STP device?
You can make a basic STP from a medical spoon, but be very careful to smooth all edges and use body-safe materials. Always practice in the shower first. DIY STPs won't perform as reliably as professional STP devices, which are designed for leak-free standing urination.
How long will a homemade packer last?
A sock packer typically lasts a few weeks to a couple of months with regular use before it loses shape or starts to fall apart. A fabric packer with reinforced stitching can last longer. Either way, they're easy and cheap to replace when needed.
Can I swim or exercise with a DIY packer?
DIY packers are not ideal for swimming — they absorb water and can become heavy or fall apart. For exercise, use a tight harness or snug underwear to keep it in place. Professional silicone packers handle water and physical activity much better.
When should I upgrade from a DIY packer to a professional one?
Consider upgrading when you want a more realistic look and feel, need something reliable for daily wear, want to use an STP device confidently, or plan to be intimate with a partner. Professional silicone packers offer the realism and durability that DIY options can't match.
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